HATE is such a strong word!

[215am ] Hate is such a strong word! At any age I'm sure a parent or even an older mature person has told you that. In order to hate someone you really have to have been wronged in the most major way possible. Don't say you hate such and such person because they scuffed your new kicks, that's just petty. Although I am trying to find a legitimate reason to hate someone, never should you be able to find a reason.

For years I have said no way someone could ever make me hate them unless they harmed someone I really loved very badly. Everyone isn't the same, hate can come in many forms. But when you hate some one you aren't hurting them your hurting yourself. If you give that said person such power you are only weakening yourself. You put all your time and energy into saying why this person is bad and what you would like to do and how could they or whatever the case may be. Is that making you feel any better? HELL NO! Don't even sit there and lie to yourself "she don't know what she talking about." If that person knew the tiniest bit that you were loosing sleep over them it would make them feel better about themselves because they knew you were miserable because of them. Never is it your job to make that person feel good about themselves because of what they have done to you.

This blog is specifically about my life and I'm trying to keep it as real as possible. I'm not going to front I never thought I could hate someone so much. Its like the thoughts that constantly clouded my mind was "how could they!" And I knew if the roles were flipped they would feel the same exact way. As time passed I knew that hating that person was childish and unhealthy for me mentally. I had bigger and better things to worry about. So instead of focusing negative energy out there I thought only positive to the best of my ability.

As hard as it may be for some people if you can be mature and try to set all things aside no matter what the situation is you are AMAZING! Don't just do it for yourself do it for those you love as well because the way you feel can affect them as well. I took that step and it made all the difference. I knew that deep down I couldn't hate anyone who had something that was a part of the people that I love the most. And even if you choose to reach out don't expect someone else's maturity level to be as high as yours. Just knowing that you tried and took that step should make you feel phenominal. You never know maybe that day will come when you and that person could squash it all for the sake of you and everyone else that it affects and completely eliminate hate out of your life. HATE is no good!